When infertility stretches on, it can affect more than hope for a baby—it can quietly touch intimacy and marriage. This letter speaks tenderly to the weight of waiting, reminding couples that God cares deeply about connection, desire, and unity, and that daily prayer invites Him into even the hardest, most personal places.
Infertility can strain marriages, making intimacy feel task-oriented and isolating. Both partners experience pain, albeit differently. It's essential to prioritize emotional connection, communicate kindly, invest time in the relationship, and cherish the present despite challenges. Infertility shouldn't overshadow the love that brought couples together. Supporting one another is vital.
“If not for me, do it for him." That’s all I could cry out in my desperation as I could barely catch my breath while pressing my forehead to the wall of our shower one late summer evening after hearing the news of a friend’s pregnancy. Infertility is hard, and after years of crying, begging,… Continue reading If Not For Me, Do It For Him
Infertility is hard. Especially on your marriage. Timed intercourse, discussion on whether to start (or stop) fertility treatments, how much money to spend on said treatments, lack of communication, and even feelings of inadequacy can really wreak havoc on a marriage. This is why I have asked Dr Carol-Peters Tanksley to guest post for me… Continue reading Preserving Your Marriage while Building Your Family
Recently, at one of my infertility support group meetings (The Nest), my husband braved a room full of hormonal and emotionally charged women to answer any of their questions. He opened up his heart as he shared the good, the bad, and the ugly side of infertility from a husband's perspective. We laughed, we cried,… Continue reading Q & A: The Infertility Husband Tells All
