When infertility stretches on, it can affect more than hope for a baby—it can quietly touch intimacy and marriage. This letter speaks tenderly to the weight of waiting, reminding couples that God cares deeply about connection, desire, and unity, and that daily prayer invites Him into even the hardest, most personal places.
How do you know when it’s time to begin fertility treatments? This faith-based reflection explores infertility decision-making, trusting God while pursuing medical treatment, discerning peace versus fear, and seeking clarity through prayer, Scripture, and fasting—offering gentle guidance for women navigating IVF, timelines, and faith during infertility.
A woman struggling with secondary infertility and parenting a teenager seeks advice on managing the emotional toll of trying to conceive while also trying to be the best mother to her 14 year old son. Should she tell him what she is going through? Find out what Elisha, founder of Waiting for Baby Bird has to say about the matter.
Dear Waiting for Baby Bird, I come from the world's most fertile family. My Mom has four children, with the last born when she was 36. My Dad has five children, including twins born when my Stepmom was 42 and my Dad 52. My elder sister has two children, my younger sister has two children, and my brother has one. There is no history of infertility on either my or my husband's side. When I was younger, I was not a good Christian and did many things I was not supposed to. I proceeded to find God and dedicate myself to him. So, a question that keeps popping into my mind is, did I bring this on myself due to my previous actions?
Dear Waiting for Baby Bird, My husband isn't a strong believer and with us having infertility he wonders, "Why would God do this to us?" How do we grow together spiritually in this journey? Signed, Asking Why
