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Is Infertility Punishment for My Past Sins?

Dear Waiting for Baby Bird,

I come from the world’s most fertile family. My Mom has four children, with the last born when she was 36. My Dad has five children, including twins born when my Stepmom was 42 and my Dad 52. My elder sister has two children, my younger sister has two children, and my brother has one. There is no history of infertility on either my or my husband’s side. When I was younger, I was not a good Christian and did many things I was not supposed to. I proceeded to find God and dedicate myself to him. So, a question that keeps popping into my mind is, did I bring this on myself due to my previous actions?

And the Color Is Orange

On this day for the past seven years, my Dad has had a beautiful rose delivered to my doorstep. It’s simply the sweetest gesture because it’s his birthday, yet he thinks of me because it’s Josiah Day, a different type of day I tend to celebrate. But while this selfless act is the sweetest, I believe the most thoughtful and encouraging aspect of this tradition is this: the flower is always a different color he strategically chooses.

What Age Is the Right Time to Give Up Trying to Conceive?

Dear Waiting for Baby Bird,

My question is, what age is the right time to give up trying to conceive? As much as I know that nothing is impossible with our God and we are still praying that He will bless us with fertility, being pregnant at 50 in todays world isn’t ideal. My husband is 40 and I’m 38. While I know there is still time, I can’t help but worry what if I’m not pregnant by the time I’m 45. Adoption isn’t something God has put in our hearts and we are solely relying on God to fall pregnant, despite the odds stacked against us.

How Did You Accept the “Morality” of IVF?

How did you accept the “morality” of IVF? My husband and I recently learned that IVF is our only option for conception. If we choose not to, my one surviving ovary has to be removed with all hope of baring a child naturally gone. But we are struggling with knowing if IVF is moral in terms of the embryos being babies. We are just torn and I need help understanding if this is forcing something that shouldn’t be. I feel dumb for even asking, but I’m lost. Everything I find online in regards to religion is extremely condemning of IVF, which I don’t think is accurate or fair

Do you think seeking medical interventions to try and conceive is something women of faith should do?

A follower asks, “Do you think by seeking medical intervention to try to conceive (Metformin, Clomid, or even searching for the right cocktail of supplements) is something that women of faith should do? I am torn and often wonder if by me doing these things than I am saying that I am putting my faith in medicine and not in God.” Read more to discover Waiting for Baby Bird’s thoughts on the matter.

Q & A: Help! How do you get past the feeling of being forgotten, or the thought that God is punishing you?

Have you ever felt forgotten by God? Have you ever felt rejected and abandoned by Him? Have others said you just need more faith, THEN, God would bless you? If so, this Q & A is for you.

Q & A: How Can I Get to a Place of Trust?

“Dear Waiting for Baby Bird” is similar to the popular newspaper column, Dear Abby. Followers, readers, and those just in need of advice, write to Waiting for Baby Bird their questions regarding infertility and loss. She then posts her responses for others who might have similar questions or concerns.

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