About Me

From what I understand this is where I am supposed to share with you my favorite food, color, holiday and hobby. I have also taken notes from other blogs and discovered this is also the place for me to share with you about how my life is so dreamy and therefore make you wish you were me. Blah, blah, blah! 

But let’s be honest. My life is not dreamy and you my sweet friend, are perfect just the way you are.

So take a deep breath and relax. I am just like you and so in this lil ol’ space of mine, you will not find perfection, but instead a bunch of unfiltered life where I share with you all of the messy, amazing, humorous, and sometimes downright ugly parts of being married while unexpectedly facing infertility, and raising our 7 year-old daughter whom we adopted through foster care on July 7, 2017. This blog is real. It is genuine. It is transparent. It is me. But what about me?

Who is this woman behind the computer screen?

First of all, my birth certificate says my name is Elisha, but my Daddyo calls me Punkin Head, my friends call me Wishwa, and my husband calls me Waladog. I live in a small town in Southern Illinois and aside from my top ten quirky facts, I love Jesus, organizing (I would probably label my label maker if no one would laugh), eating bologna sandwiches with Wavy Lays Hickory Smoked BBQ chips smashed in the middle, taking extremely long showers (our water bill is INSANE), and listening to my husband talk about engineering for hours upon hours (oh wait, there is a bit of sarcasm on that last one).

All joking aside, my husband and I have been married for 13 amazing years and we yearn for our own biological children; however due to Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), we are “challenged” in the fertility department. Over the course of six years, the doctors have given me a 3% chance of conceiving on my own but I know that God is bigger than PCOS or any other doctor’s report, and so through Jesus, I have faith to believe that despite the odds, I have a 100% chance of having my own biological children. Can I get an amen?!

As a way to keep myself from going crazy as I patiently wait, as well as to share the faithfulness and love of God as we navigate on this bumpy path of twists, turns and surprises of this thing called life, I also lead a once a month infertility support group in my home called, “The Nest,” as well as travel all over the United States speaking at infertility conferences and support groups.  If you are interested in booking me for your next event, or perhaps you live in the Southern Illinois area and you want a lunch date, email me at waitingforbabybird@gmail.com. I would love to meet you and share the Father’s heart.

I want to thank you for stopping by and I encourage you to take a peek at “Our Infertility Story” to get all of the juicy details of our failed IVF cycle, early miscarriage and how I was given the promise of a son (Josiah). I also encourage you to hop on over to Facebook and like my page so that you can get all of my recent posts, encouraging words, and chances to win giveaways delivered right to your news feed.

9 thoughts on “About Me

  1. Hi again LOL sorry one more thing… I just wrote you a huge message but I just read your About Me page and I wanted to also tell you that I share the same love for birds too. I was wondering why you called your website waitingforbabybird. Makes sense now.
    I love birds so much I was dreaming of having a parrot for…yeeears… I finally got one four years ago and my house has been full of joy and singing from him and it’s been just amazing having him. He’s 5 yrs old only. I got him when he was 1 yr old 🙂
    I’ll attach here a link I have of him on YouTube. He’s such a cutie pie. I think you’ll like it 🙂

    Have a wonderful day!

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  2. Greetings! I wasn’t able to respond to your recent post because the comments were closed, so I came here. I played that April Fool’s joke a few years back but it backfired, it got around the island as gossip that I was leaving to hide a pregnancy. That taught me a huge lesson.

    But I understand your pain, not all women are able to conceive. And you are right, not everyone is aware of the pain that anyone may be in for any given reason; therefore, we as humans should be considerate of that as we walk through life, but we know that few truly are. Your sensitivity may not be as another’s, and vice versa, so you must guard your own words as you seek others to do to make sure that you unknowingly do not offend in any way.

    When it comes to conceiving for specific women that has Purpose in GOD, sometimes it’s about timing, and for this reason GOD will shut up their womb until his timing. In the meantime, patience, faith and preparation should be the focus.

    GOD Bless!

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    • Thank you so much for your comment 🙂 Yes, I had to turn off the option to comment because they were becoming really vulgar. It truly wasn’t good for my soul to read that much foul language and name calling. I hope you understand. 🙂

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  3. Elisha so with you after 15 years of never being able to conceive a baby naturally our little surprise miracle baby was born last year! When I say surprise I mean deep utter shock in a good way!


  4. My name is Christy and I found your blog through a friend who is also struggling with having a baby. I was really moved by your story and your struggle with PCOS. I wanted to share some insight from several friends of mine. You may have already looked into this, or brushed it off as something that won’t work for you… But early this year I started eating a ketogenic diet. I joined a really supportive group of people on Facebook who really helped me on the journey. Now, I joined for weight loss and for the mental clarity it provides, but since joining, I’ve seen a LOT of people with PCOS or fertility issues posting about how it reversed their symptoms. I’ve seen several posts recently about couples who are now expecting, after going years without any luck. I thought I would pass this onto you…. Maybe you’ll look into it, if you haven’t already. God bless 🙂


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